What is the worst thing you have ever said to someone?
What prompted you to say it? What were the circumstances surrounding the incident? Are you sorry? Does anyone else know about it?
How would you feel if someone said the same thing to you? If you knew that the things you say had a long-term effect on the people you say them to, would you still say them? How do you feel when you hurt someone's feelings with words? Many questions here, be sure to answer ALL of them
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ReplyDeleteI suppose the worst thing I have ever said to anyone was that they're going to die. We all know that at some point, everyone kicks bucket, but it was the context in which it was said that was hurtful. One day, freshman year, my brother and I were walking home from the bus stop. Rumors had been flooding around the school, and to me, that he smoked pot. Now, my brother and I are fairly close, but we do keep to ourselves in many things. When I heard this, I quickly defended him by saying, "Oh no, not my brother. No, he doesn't smoke." and other variations of opposition. But then I began to realize, all of these people could not be wrong or merely "out to get" my brother, so I had to ask him, I had to know. The twitch in my every move became worse and worse as I tried to gather up enough courage to ask. I suddenly blurted out, "Do you smoke pot?" and everything became awkward. Pointless conversation about it trickled on for a few minutes, and it became rather heated and sort of an angry dispute. Suddenly, my emotions took over and I screamed, "You know what George, you're gonna die!" and he stopped in his place. He turned to me and said, "Fuck you Becca, don't talk to me." and we continued home. I am not sorry that I said it. I was hoping to get a wake-up call to George, and though I didn't, I still don't regret it. Some people know about it, my parents, a few friends, and of course George and myself, but no one else (well, now 204 knows). If someone were to say that to me, in that same context, I would probably be angry at first, but I think about things for long periods of time, and after having thought about it for a while, ultimately I would be happy that someone cares so much. I often think before I speak, so, I would still say what I feel even knowing there was a long term effect to them. Things happen for a reason, and if I kept things bottled up inside then that would be worse in the long run, I feel. I am usually one to hurt people with words, I have a way with them. I know how to twist and mangle my sentences so that I get the utmost meaning out of them, good or bad. At the moment of saying the words, I do not feel anything except anger towards them, but after I sit and think, and calm down, I do feel some kind of remorse. I am not an evil person, I do have a lot of compassion for others. I do feel what's said is said, but there is always a way to make up for them with more words, in such verbal or written apologies.
ReplyDeleteThe worst thing I've said to someone ever is too inappropriate for school. Some kid really pissed me and it doesn't take much for someone to spark my short fuse. A kid said something disrespectful to me, just being dumb and i set him straight. I never regret anything I do ever so I'm not sorry, never was sorry and never will be sorry. I guess there were kids around me that heard me getting in the kid's face. If someone said the same thing to me, I'd probably fight that person or just fight fire with fire. I don't take anything or hold anything back. I find it funny for a person to be affected long term by something I said. I would still say everything I said because I'm sincere and I mean what I say really.When i hurt someone's feelings with words, i feel good that I got my word out. i let that person know what i think and get satisfaction from it. It brings them down when they deserve it and I feel great.
ReplyDeleteThe meanest thing I have ever said to anyone was that I hoped they died. Now I know a lot of people say that but they way I said it to this kid was serious. I really didn’t mean it but I was so heated at the moment I had nothing else to say. I was very sorry and some people do know about it because they were there. It was some kid who was a so called THUG and said a lot of mean things to everyone. He didn’t say anything to me directly but he was offended everyone and I was one of those people who he kept offending. I would feel really bad if someone said that to me and actually meant it. I think wishing death on anyone is terrible. If I knew that the things I say would have a long term affect on people I would never say something so mean. When I hurt people with words I usually feel bad. I mean sometimes I think SOME people deserve to get their feelings hurt by words because they are just cruel and terrible themselves. But other times I don’t think people deserve it. I know I feel really bad if I say a lot of mean things to someone and make them cry or something, But we live in a cruel world
ReplyDeleteAs nice as I am Ive said mean things. I cant really remember the things Ive said but one thing I do remember saying I said last year my junior year to a teacher. I told this teacher to shut the f--k up. All I did was ask him a question and he started rambling on about how I was talking too much and he would not stop so I lost my patience and just said it. But because of that I got suspended from school but only for 2 days. I agree that I was turned around talking but it was not as much as he made it seem. I told the vice principal and my parents that I was sorry about it but was I sorry?...Nope. He got what he deserve and when I say or do something depending on the situation I dont feel sorry. Im not a bad person its just how it is. People in class that saw what happened know about it, the vice principal know about it, the teen center know and my parents know. My parents obviously knew about it because I got suspended from school..and they were pissed! If someone said that to me I could care less. I really dont care what people say to me. But then theres times I do care and I guess it really just depends the situation. If the person deserve it they deserve it. Karma is a bitch, enough said. To be honest I dont care when I hurt somones feelings because if im doing it to begin with then they had it coming. I actually dont hurt peoples feelings and you can ask anyone that knows me...Im way too nice and sweet. But when I get to that point (which is rare) of hurting someone, no I dont feel bad.
ReplyDeleteI can’t remember a time I said something that shouldn’t been said to someone and it made them feel like shit and I feel like shit. I really watch what I say around other people, I don’t want to offend anyone. I think the worst was when I said I hate my parents. We got into a fight and I said that they suck and all the things kids say when they are mad at their parents. After I said t I felt bad for what I said because all the things they do for me they shouldn’t have to hear that from me. I felt really bad and that day I said I was sorry and it will never happen again. I think if my parents said they can’t stand me as a son, I wouldn’t know what to do with myself. My Mom means the world to me and if she ever said that I think I would be so upset and maybe move out now. That’s if she said it. I think if my parents were mad at me forever for saying it I would have never said it because like I said my mom means the world I could never be mad at her for more than an hour. I try not to hurt anyone’s feeling but if I ever do I feel like shit and I ask myself why I said the things I said and that nobody deserves that.
ReplyDeleteI cant even think of the worst thing i said to someone of the top of my head but it probably was like i was gonna kill them or something close. I probably said that because the person did something to me or someone close to me that was out of line. It got to the point where it just made me want the person dead. I am not sorry i said it. What said is said. People that was there would know about it and people who run they mouth told other people so im sure other people would know about it. i feel the same as i am now because people have told me the same thing but i anit going to be all scared bacause they said that imma just be waiting. Living everyday like i always do. If i know the words have a long term effect i think i would still say it. It all depends on whos feelings im hurting. When i hurt someones feelings that i love i do fear sorry and wish i could take it back.
ReplyDeleteI’m mad I’m mad, no stopping or changing that. I don’t remember what made me say it, it was so long ago. I The Worse thing I’ve ever said is probably eat shit and die. I usually don’t say things like that but when am sorry. If it was a couple years ago, I probably wouldn’t have been sorry. That’s what a care-free attitude will do to you. Knowing how the world is today, I don’t wish death upon anyone. The death rate gets higher and higher each and every day. If someone were to say it to me, I wouldn’t care at all. Yes I would think about it, but that person can’t control if I live or not. If I knew that it had a long term effect, I would definitely think about things before I would say them. Sometimes the smallest things could have the biggest effect on someone’s interself. I don’t really like to say things to hurt people’s feelings, so I keep them to myself. I’m more of a person that doesn’t criticize, Not really a talker so it doesn’t phase me!
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ReplyDeletethe worst thing ive ever said to someone was prolly that i told this girl she was a chicken head. Its not the worst thing ive said to someone but it made the girl cry. This was waaaay back in 3rd grade. The girl had made me mad so i called her a chicken head. Thats when the song "Chicken Head" came out. The song was garbage thow. I was really kool with the girl and she looked really good back in 3rd grade haha. After that we got back kool again so it was all gravy hahaha
ReplyDeleteThe worst thing I ever said to someone was to my parents and it was that I hated them and I wanted to move out asap and that they were pieces of shit. I was getting tired of there shit and I couldnt stand them anymore and they kicked me out of the house. I slept in my truck for one day and slept at my friends house and I hated it cause I wasnt in my bad and didnt have a place to call home. I am sorry for what I said but some of it was truthfull, I still dont want to live there but I didnt mean it in the way that I wanted to be out right then and there. I want to get a stable job and save a little then leave asap, not in a mean way but its been a long time and I think its just time for me to hop out the nest. My friends knew about it obviously because I was kicked out and they all offered to let me stay with them. Yes I would get upset with someone if they were staying with me and said they wanted to be out but now that this happened to me and Im sure it happened to most people int here teenage years. I think the effects are short because they do understand deep down that they are getting older and want to get out and become there own person but I probably wouldnt say it just because I dont like to hurt peoples feelings. And I dont like hurting peoples feeling so I wouldnt do it.
ReplyDeleteThe worst thing I have ever said to someone was “I’m taking my son and won’t be able to see him ever again!” I said this to my baby father because he broke up with me because of something NORMAL relationships go through and get through then started to date a white girl. Don’t get me wrong I love white people I actually have a lot of white friends it’s just if you’re going to break up with me PLEASE let the next chick be an upgrade! I’ve apologized to him because it was a false statement, I hurt him really bad, and because I love him. I told my mother about this situation and my best friend because I go to them about EVERYTHING and they give me the best advice. If anyone said that to me I would be very hurt especially coming from someone that is very important in my life. Whenever you decide to have kids never say those words to the baby’s father no matter how mad he gets you. If I knew that what I said would have had a long-term effect on him I would have never said it at all. I guess I was very anger at him because he told me he loved me and would never break up with me and we would be together forever. Usually when I say hurtful things to people I feel guilty at the moment but that day I didn’t feel anything until after.
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ReplyDeleteThe worst thing i have ever said to someone is i wished they would die. I think the reason i said that is because i was angry, worried,and scared and it got to me.The reason i said it is because the person i said it about was the one who hit my brother with his car.I think i do regret saying it because even if they are your worst enemy you sould not wish for anothers death. I think he should have been punished some how though. But then again if i would have hit someone i would feel horrible about it. I dont think anyone knew i said this because i usally keep my feeling to myself.
The worst thing I ever said to I person is that they were crossed eyed the reason why. I said this is because she I was a bad boyfriend for her friend and I knew I wasn’t. I’m not sure exactly why this had come up but it had something to do with the fact me and her best friend was in a relationship and she had already not liked me I guess it is because of my attitude towards her. I would think they are seeing something and I would not associate with them anymore. If I knew what I said to a person would have long-term effect I would still say it but not in a very rude way. I would try to say it the nicest way possible so they knew how I felt. Depending on the circumstances or the person I would feel terrible it’s like being angry and saying something you don’t mean or finally saying something you always wanted to say.
ReplyDeleteThe worst thing that I have ever said to someone is to go and f*** themselves and go to hell. The reason being why I said it was because it was one of those things where you take people talking about you and you finally had enough and I did I had enough so I told that person to go f*** himself and go to hell after I said it I felt a little better than I did before I said it but in the back of my mind I was thinking that I could of handled the situation differently than I had. Am I sorry well yea and no yes because no one should be told that and no because at the beginning of it all I thought he deserved it and it’s only between me and him no one else. And if someone were to say it to me I would feel up set and awful and maybe I would try resolve the situation probably wouldn’t say them if I knew that they had a long term effect on people in less I really felt strong about what I said to them.at first I feel like a weights have been lifted off of me after I say something but afterwards I feel guilt and don’t know what to do.
ReplyDelete"YOUR A SCUMBAG" just the word itsself is down right insulting.
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noun
- THE WOST THING YOU COULD SAY ANYTHING TO SOMEONE
-ITS downgrading
- JERK
-LOWER THAN LOW.
and thats itttttt, thats what i said, i had just about enough of my ex-boyfriend nonsence! he pisssed me off, and man i got mad.
It was christmas eve and everythings goin goood, i talked to joe 2 hours pryer to when plans were. he was at home hangin with tommy.. as i was on the phone with him i had told him that dinner is at aunt tina's house at 6, mind you this is 4 o'clock when i got off the phone with him.. of course hes chillin with timmy, not a suprise, they end up at the bar piss ass drunk i call him and he says "whats up" im thinkin in my head ITS SIX OF EFFIN O'CLOCK! "where are you" im at the bar wit my dad and the boys and so and so likeee!!!, i and about that time im gonnnnna scream.. so we got into this big ass fight, and end like your a scumbag.
i had to tell his secret santa that he was drunk and ata bar and i felt bad for myself cause i had to do that but, i was truely mad!
of course now i am sorry, i really hurt his feelingssss :( me not realizing how low of a word that was, but i was heated. i regret it im sure i do. i wouldnt say it if i thought joe would take it to heart, i felt like shiiittttt after, my advice to you, please dontttttt say it if u think you'll killl them
Well I don’t really say anything hurtful to anyone; I tend to keep rude remarks to myself to prevent drama. The worst thing I ever said to someone was “I hate living here and I cannot wait to move out” to my mom. We were arguing about how she treats me like a child among other issues we have with each other. I could tell she was hurt by what I said and I did apologize later on that day for how I acted and treated her. Only my mom and I were in the house at the time so we were the only people that knew this went on. When I’m older and have children I think I would be hurt too and would feel like a bad parent if my child said that to me. If my words affected people long-term I probably would reconsider what I am going to say to them because I feel awful whenever I hurt a person’s feelings. I feel like a bad person when I say something rude or disrespectful to someone, they don’t deserve most of the time.
ReplyDeleteWell I never really say terrible thins to anyone, but I’m pretty sure that when I was a kid I said I hate you to my dad. Yes it was mean of me, and I probably said it because we where probably in an argument and it got out of control. I never really liked being told what to do, and unfortunately for my momentary interests, my dad was a very intelligent man who wanted me to know as much as I could. That doesn’t sound like a bad thing, but I was young and I’m sure I would have rather played with my friends or watch TV instead. I know my dad most likely was hurt by what I said but beings I was young it might have had a different effect then it would if I did it today. I doubt I would have said that if I knew what it could do to someone. That’s really why I never say anything that could be taken seriously in a harsh way. I really don’t like ever having the guilty feeling of hurting someone mentally. That’s just not me and I’m glad to say that I never really do that anymore.
ReplyDeleteThe worst thing I ever said to somebody would have to be "You're a #$%^#$% @#$%". What prompted me to say it is that they had already angered me and hurt me a few times perviously. So it was kind of just the last straw to get them to leave me alone. What happened was we got into an arguement about something very stupid and it escalated they said some mean things to me, and I responded to how they treated me in a way that I normally don't. Yes I am very sorry I said it. I would be very hurt if someone were to say the samething to me in the same manner I said it to them. It truly depends on the person and how I feel about them which would cause me or prevent me from saying certain things. If I like the person I wouldn't intentionally say anything that hurts them.Not many things can hurt me as far as words go cause I don't really care. I find most people are idiots that are saying things to me anyway so I just let it roll of my back. However, when people can get words to hurt me I get very angry.
ReplyDeleteThe worst thing i have ever said to someone is i hope they rot and I said it to my brother. When I said it I was mad and i know now that it was a stupid reason because I don't even remember why I said it in the first place. I apologized right after because honestly i was and still am very sorry I ever said it. Nobody else knew about what I said to my brother and if I ever had someone say something to me i would be mad. if i knew that it had a lon-term effect i would have never said it and never will again. I feel bad because i know it would make me mad if i was ever told anything. I felt so bad when i said it to my brother because i know where family and thats why i think it hurt me even more that i said it. Until this day i still remember the look on his face when i said it and i remember how he went straight to sleep because i was the one that made him cry. That was the worst thing i ever said and it was the worst thing i have ever done and i feel bad about it until this day.
ReplyDeletei think that the worst thing that i have ever said to someone was that i hope you die. What promped me to say it was that i was really mad and upset and i just said what i felt. When i get really upset or mad i cant control what i say. Everything just come out and i say how i feel and thats what i felt at the time. Yes there were circumstances surrounding the inciddent because i just couldnt beleive what happened. it was something that someone did and it completely caught me off guard and i was shocked and i just blanked out. I honestly dont know if i'm sorry. It's the fact that thats how i felt and after it all happened my mind didnt changed and i just didnt care anymore. I do feel guilty about what i said but something in me just wanted to say it and i felt inside that i ment it but it was wrong to say because i would necessarily wish that upon anyone. No no one else knows about it except for that one person. If someone said that to me i would say like why would someone say that to me or am i such a bad person that someone would want that to happen to me.If i knew that the things i say had a long-term effect on the people i dont know if i would say it. I guess it just depends on the situation and what kind of effect exactly. Some people say things and then feel bad for that exact reason because something happens to that person and then they feel bad and wish they could have tooken it back. If i sid something that hurts someones feelings it would matter because i said it for e reason, unless i took it to far then thats different.
ReplyDeleteThe worst thing i said to someone was to my sister. i told my sister i hated her. We were going through alot of promblems and she changed to a new person around new friends she had met. even thought i know i shouldn't have said i hated her i thought it was more becaus ei was made but i dont think i should have said that i hated her. when i said i hated her she acted like she didnot care and acted like it didnot hurt her but really it hurted her alot. she told everyone and everyone kept coming up to me telling me how could you do that. Now we talk to each other and left it alone and she reliezed she was wrong and now we are bestfriends again. we really never said sorry to each other or talked about it we just knew we were both wrong. we never fight so it felt so depressing and weird that we werenot talking. if someone told me they hated me i would be so hurt and feel like i dont belong. i been told i been hated but by someone that didnot matter it is different if it is by someone i love. if what i said had a long effect on the person i would feel so bad about it. i wouldnot say them if it was.
ReplyDeleteThe meanest thing i said to anyone was that i tokld my sister tyo go to H-E-double hockey sticks because i was mad that she took my cell phone and read my messages and told my parents my conversations. I was so heated! she was me because i made a mess in her room, because i was tryin to find afavorite sirt that i had and she took. we we're both mad at the moment. I wasnt sorry for what i said to her but i didnt mean it. if someone was to say it to me i wouldn"t care. Our parents kniow thst i said it to her but they know i was mad
ReplyDeleteThe Worst thing I ever said to someone is….well can’t really say some of it but I said “you don’t deserve sh**”, “your an ungrateful B****”, “your going to hell”, “I wish we weren’t related”, and some other stuff I can’t mention. I said it because she really is all those thing, she has everything and is a complete b****, the stuff she does is so messed up. I’m sick of seeing her make my parents cry, after all they do for her. She is such a spoiled b**** and the stuff she does is completely unnecessary, like treating my parents like complete crap and disrespecting them so much. I can say I do pretty much hate her and I would never be sorry for the stuff I said to her, because she deserves it. I said stuff to her in front of my front of my friends parents a couple times, of course they told me to stop and calm down. But I’m really defending and standing up for my parents. If someone said the same thing about me I wouldn’t even listen because I know I’m none of those thing and respectful to everyone. She really doesn’t really even care what I have to say to her. If it was anyone else and I knew it would have a long term effect on them, I wouldn’t say it. I wouldn’t and never did to anyone else anyway. It doesn’t even hurt her feelings anyways, I really think she’s heartless. But when I do hurt someone’s feelings, I feel like complete crap and apologize like a million times and try to make it up to them. It takes a lot to piss me off and go off on someone, so if I do you know there F’d up and deserve it. I strongly believe in a thing called respect, especially when it comes to your parents(good parents) and elders, and really anyone in general. So if I curse someone out, there a piece of sh**.
ReplyDeleteWell i try not to freak out on people i like to control myself. Every once in a while i get those days though where everyone just upsets me. I could say my meanest thing i ever said was i didn't care about my parents to their faces. I really didn't even mean to say it they just kinda always had the worst of my bad days and for that i'm real sorry. They're always there and they understand that i get pretty mad sometimes so they don't think nothing of it, but after words i feel like i'm some kind of crazy person who cant control myself. The truth is that i do control myself but sometimes I say hurtful things that i don't mean. I've been getting better though because i've learned that if you let all of your stress and aggression build up all of the time alls you're going to be is one really ugly person. To take control of it I've been practicing new methods to make myself happy and stress relief techniques that other people have taught me and it really works. Also seeing the long term effects of my actions has really made me think about what i have spent my life doing. I want my parents to be proud of me not to hate me.
ReplyDeleteI think the worst thing I ever said to somebody was “I don’t know why you are living”. The reason I said this is because I really have a problem with my brother and I don’t like him what so ever. And I don’t remember what happened and why I don’t like him I just don’t. I am not sorry for saying it, because I’ m the type of person where if I don’t like you I don’t care about your feelings what so ever. Yes my mom and dad and sister know about it. If somebody said the same thing to me I most likely will feel some type of way about it, like I will not ever speak nor be around that person again. If it had a long-term affect on him, I think I still would have said it, because he knows I don’t like him and how I feel about him being around me and talking to me. So I feel as though he brought that on himself, by coming around me and plus that day I was upset. Now it depends because sometimes I could feel bad, only if they did nothing to me or I just say something to somebody because I was mad at something or somebody else. But If I don’t care nor like the person I won’t care at all how I make them feel.
ReplyDeleteOK,this is going to be pretty messed up but i told a girl that i hoped she found a nice guy had a family and then had to watch as he kids were killed.i said it because i had caught her cheating on me a few days after our 6 month aneversery. alot of her friends know that i said that to her but they dont care because they knew how bad she hurt me i kinda feel bad about what i said but i dont think about it muchif what i said really affected people in the long term i would probaly think about what i say more
ReplyDeleteI suppose the worst thing I have ever said to anyone was that i will spit in there face and it was to a girl. I know its disrespectful but i had to cause they was trying to jump my little sister and i wasn't having that, but they were girls so im not going to put my hands on them. I love my little sister and that was the first thing that had came to my head so i had siad it. if someone had said that to me i would want to fight right then and there. I dont plat that disrespecting me stuff and you just going to walk away normal something is going to happen some way. No i wouldn't cause i wouldnt like to be treated like that so i shouldnt treat others like that. if i did have a chance to change it i would cause im older and wiser now. When i hurt someone feelings with words at that moment i dont care but later on i feel sorry. Im probably like that cause i have a bad temper and i im slowly getting to know had to calm it down.
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